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Jul 09, 2025

When the Table Feels Empty: Finding God in Seasons of Grief

Introduction
Grief changes everything—even the way we eat. At Ziva’s Quiet Light counseling sessions, we often hear, “I can’t cook anymore; it reminds me of them.” If your kitchen feels heavy with loss, here’s a gentle roadmap to healing:

1. Honor the Memories

That recipe they loved? Make it. Light a candle. Tell stories. Like David lamenting Jonathan (2 Samuel 1:17-27), God gives space for sorrow and celebration.

2. Start Small

Rebuild your rhythm with simplicity:

  • Tea + Toast: A ritual of warmth.
  • Meal Kits: Our pre-portioned kits remove decision fatigue.

3. Let Others Nourish You

Accept the casseroles. Sit at others’ tables. Jesus modeled this in John 21:9-12—He cooked for His grieving friends, but also let them feed Him.

Closing
Grief isn’t linear, but you don’t walk it alone. Join our Quiet Light Support Circle (meets every Thursday) or download our free guide, "Recipes for the Weary Soul."

Call-to-Action

"If this resonated with you, book a Grief Counseling session or comment below with a dish that brings you comfort."

(5) comments

Eunice

2 weeks ago

@Mamadou Ndiaye, I'm glad you were moved by the article.

Joan Ayiko

3 weeks ago

Great article, I love it.

Tumuhimbise Godwin

3 weeks ago

Your blend of practical and spiritual grief wisdom is exceptional. The meal kit suggestion removes such a real barrier. May I recommend this post to my congregants? Also, when does your next support circle meet?

John Mark

3 weeks ago

Sharing this with my sister, who's grieving. The John 21 reference about letting others feed you? So powerful. Do you offer virtual Quiet Light sessions for overseas clients?

Mamadou Ndiaye

3 weeks ago

Reading this with tears - in a good way. Lost my husband last year and couldn't bear to make his favorite mandazi. But your 'start small' advice gave me courage. Made tea today while talking to him. Thank you for this safe space.

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